Why Teach This Early?
Following instructions is essential for school success and safety. Children who can follow multi-step directions learn more efficiently. This skill also teaches respect for authority and the ability to work within systems.
Progressive Sub-Goals
Introduction
Follows one-step instructions with guidance
💡 Tip: Get their attention first: say their name, make eye contact. Give one clear instruction: "Put your shoes by the door." Wait for completion before the next instruction.
Developing
Follows two-step instructions with reminders
💡 Tip: Use "first-then" language: "First put on your shoes, then get your backpack." Play Simon Says to make following instructions fun.
Mastery
Follows multi-step instructions independently
💡 Tip: Give morning and bedtime routines as multi-step sequences. Use visual checklists. Celebrate when they complete all steps without reminders.
Teaching Tips
- 1Get their attention before giving instructions
- 2Give one instruction at a time, then build up
- 3Use "first-then" language for sequences
- 4Play games like Simon Says to practice
Global Context
Japanese kindergartens emphasize following group instructions. German apprenticeship culture values precise instruction-following. Children who develop this skill early succeed in structured environments like school.
Learning Resources
George S. Patton: War Hero (Childhood of Famous Americans) by George E. Stanley
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