Why Teach This Early?
Emotional intelligence begins with naming and accepting feelings.
Progressive Sub-Goals
Introduction
Target: 12-14 monthsShows clear emotions (joy, frustration, fear)
💡 Tip: Name their emotions: "You're frustrated!" This builds emotional vocabulary.
Developing
Target: 14-18 monthsSeeks comfort when upset
💡 Tip: Be available for comfort. Secure attachment supports emotional development.
Mastery
Target: 18-24 monthsBegins to use words for feelings
💡 Tip: Teach feeling words: happy, sad, mad, scared. Read books about emotions.
Teaching Tips
- 1Name emotions consistently
- 2Validate all feelings
Global Context
Emotion coaching is supported by research across cultures.
Learning Resources
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#32 Open Cup Drinking
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